AWDTSG Checker
Find out if you — or someone you're dating — has been posted in the “Are We Dating The Same Guy?” Facebook groups. Reviewed by a real person, not an instant bot. And if it's defamation, we help get it removed.
Who are you checking?
100% private — the person is never notified.
100% private · the person is never notified
What Is “Are We Dating The Same Guy?” (AWDTSG)?
AWDTSG stands for “Are We Dating The Same Guy?” — a network of private, women-only Facebook groups organized city by city. Members post the name, photos, and details of men they are dating or have dated so other women can “warn” each other. The groups grew to millions of members across the United States, Canada, and beyond, with a separate group for nearly every major city.
The intent — helping women stay safe — is understandable. The problem is that the posts are anonymous to the man being discussed, published without his consent or knowledge, and almost never verified. A single post from an ex, a date that didn't go anywhere, or even someone acting on secondhand gossip can put your name and face in front of thousands of strangers — and it can stay there for years.
Because the groups are private and women-only, most men have no way to see what has been said about them. You can't join, you can't search, and you won't be notified. That is exactly the gap an AWDTSG checker fills: it checks the groups on your behalf so you finally know what is out there.
Who Gets Posted in the AWDTSG Groups?
Posts are not limited to any one type of person. But certain men face a much higher chance of showing up:
- ●Active dating-app users — anyone on Hinge, Tinder, Bumble, or similar apps is frequently posted after dates that don't turn into relationships.
- ●Men going through a breakup — an ex can post out of anger, and claims are rarely checked before they go up.
- ●Men with a public social media presence — photos are easy to grab from Instagram or a dating profile and re-posted into a group.
- ●Men in big dating cities — the most active AWDTSG groups are in cities like New York, Los Angeles, Chicago, Miami, Houston, and Atlanta.
What Happens When Someone Posts You in AWDTSG
When a post goes up, your name and photo become visible to every member of that city's group — often thousands of people. Comments pile on, sometimes from members who have never met you. Screenshots get shared outside the group. And because the post is anonymous, you usually have no idea it exists until it has already done damage.
Relationship damage
A current or future partner finds the post and questions your character over claims no one verified.
Career impact
A screenshot reaches a coworker or employer and follows your name online.
Emotional distress
Finding false accusations about yourself in front of strangers is stressful and isolating.
Social fallout
Mutual friends and acquaintances see it and form opinions based on one side of a story.
How to Check If You're in “Are We Dating The Same Guy?”
You can't join and search the groups yourself — they're private and women-only. Here's how our AWDTSG checker does it for you:
Tell us who to check
First name, age, and city of the person — yourself or someone you're dating — plus a clear photo for an accurate match.
A real person checks the groups
We check across the relevant city groups and review what we find — not an instant one-click bot.
Get your private report
The posts, photos, and comments we find, with a plain-English summary — sent privately to your email. Found defamation? We help remove it.
Why Use Our AWDTSG Checker
Most men find out about an AWDTSG post weeks or months late — from a friend, a date who suddenly went quiet, or a screenshot that made the rounds. Our checker closes that gap: instead of wondering whether your name or photo is circulating in those groups, you run one check and know.
Ours is human-reviewed, not an instant “AI” gimmick. A real person checks the relevant city groups and reviews the results, so what you get back is actually accurate. There's no subscription and no recurring charge, and your check stays completely private. You don't need a Facebook account, and you never have to ask a woman to look for you.
And if the check turns something up, you're not left staring at it. Our removal team handles takedowns end to end — but only after we verify a post is actually false or defamatory, with a free case review first.
AWDTSG Groups by City
“Are We Dating The Same Guy?” runs a separate group for nearly every major city, and the busiest are in the biggest dating markets. We can check any of them — just tell us the city when you run your check:
Don't see your city? We check nationwide — enter any U.S. city in the checker above.
AWDTSG Checker — Frequently Asked Questions
Is the AWDTSG checker safe and legit?
Yes. You never log into Facebook or the "Are We Dating The Same Guy?" groups, and the person you check is never notified. Your search and photo stay private and are used only to run your check. Unlike instant "AI" lookups that spit out a one-click answer, every report is reviewed by a real person on our team — and if we find something, we check whether it is actually defamation before anyone acts on it.
Is it instant?
No — and that is on purpose. The AWDTSG groups are private, women-only, and change daily, so a 3-minute automated scan only skims the surface. A real person reviews your check so what you get back is actually worth acting on. You will see the exact delivery window at checkout, and your report arrives privately by email.
How does the AWDTSG checker work?
You tell us the first name, age, and city of the person to check and add a clear photo. Our team checks across the relevant "Are We Dating The Same Guy?" city groups and sends a private, human-reviewed report with the posts, photos, and comments we find — plus a plain-English summary. If posts are found and verified as defamation, we can help get them removed.
Can I search the "Are We Dating The Same Guy?" groups myself?
Not really. The groups are private and women-only, membership is screened, and posts are not indexed by Google. Even members cannot easily search every city group for one person. That is why a dedicated AWDTSG checker exists — it does the looking for you without you ever joining or logging in.
How much does the AWDTSG check cost?
A one-time AWDTSG check is $19.99. You are paying for the check and the specialist review, which does not guarantee a post will be found — if nothing surfaces, that is a genuine result and your check was still performed in full. There is no subscription and no recurring charge.
Will he know I checked him?
No. The check is completely private. The person you look up is never notified, never messaged, and never sees that a search happened. Nothing is posted anywhere.
Can you remove a post if you find one?
Yes. If we find a post and our due diligence verifies it is false or defamatory, our reputation team handles removal through the group, through Facebook, and through escalation where appropriate — and we do not call a removal done until it is actually gone. The check is the first step; removal is a separate service covered by a free case review.
What is AWDTSG?
AWDTSG stands for "Are We Dating The Same Guy?" — a network of private, women-only Facebook groups organized by city, where members post about men they are dating or have dated to warn each other. Posts are anonymous to the person being discussed and appear without consent or notification.
Already Found a Post About You?
If a post about you in an AWDTSG group is false or defamatory, our takedown team can help get it removed — through the group, through Facebook, and through escalation where needed.
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Tea App Green Flags is not affiliated with, endorsed by, or sponsored by “Are We Dating The Same Guy?”, Meta, or Facebook. All trademarks are the property of their respective owners. This tool is provided for informational purposes only. You are paying for a check and specialist review, which does not guarantee a post will be found.